Among married couples, it’s natural for the wife to feel insecure sometimes or for the husband to feel needy on certain nights.
Sending each other sexy messages while going through each other’s daily work can help in building up the excitement of being finally together at the end of the day. It can make each other’s physical presence essential to one another.
It offers the chance to tell them how good they make you feel, how you love touching them, how much you like being close together or how much you’re looking forward to making love to them.
There’s no doubt that sexting can put a hint of smile on your face. It can make you feel sexually-attractive in a lot of ways especially if you’re doing it with your partner. And that’s enough to reduce your stress and make you feel more relaxed.
How Sexting Works
For both men and women, sexting is the sexiest and naughtiest way to play with words. It’s the best way to express what your body desires and what your sexual visions are made of.
Considering the fact that playing the role of a porn star to satisfy your partner isn’t always possible all the time, you would need to try out something different to give each other’s pleasure parts a treat. This is how sexting becomes relevant and exciting for couples.
Since sex chatting or sexting is basically an art and involves a tasteful use of words, it can be quite awkward at first. If you’re uncertain on what to say or if you’re doing it with a new partner, you would need some hot initiators to start the fire.
Of course, it helps to have a chat or text partner who knows how to do it well to turn you on.
“I’m trying to concentrate on my work but all I can think of is your pretty face and how wet you are when we’re making love.”
“I’m craving for you right now and I wish I can just feel you hot and hard against my body.”
“I want to pin you down on the couch and take your panties off slowly down your legs. I’m going to touch every inch of your body and kiss you down there. I would draw circles around your clit using my tongue and I won’t stop even if you beg me to.”
“I want your hands all over my body. I imagine you kissing me hard and your lips moving down towards my breasts with your tongue tracing around my nipples. I can almost feel you touching me between my legs to feel how wet I am.”
A Piece of Sexting Advice
Sexting can be a healthy way to enhance sexual connection and intimacy with your partner. It is also the surest way to stand out from the other women in your partner’s life especially if you’re still on the dating game.
But to feel good about it and to not feel sorry later on, you must learn how to draw the line. Determine how far you’re willing to go and how much you’re willing to give. Be tasteful with your words and don’t try to stay too far from your comfort zone.
And lastly, should you decide to send suggestive images or videos along with your naughty messages, conceal your face completely. Hide any identifying marks (tattoos, accessories or birth marks) to be on the safe side.
Even if you trust your partner, malicious people might be lurking around to invade your privacy and take advantage of the situation.